Self Improvement

Which story do you believe in?

User Rating: / 0
PoorBest 
Dearest Darling Friends,
The coach of Indian Hockey team, Michael Nobbs, is an engineer by training and a big Steve Jobs fan. Just like his inspiration Steve Jobs, he looks for ways to use technology to get better results. He persuaded Hockey India to give every player an iPad. The players use the device to study their game and those of their competitors.
“But,” he says, “it’s not just about technology. It’s more importantly, about the story. It’s in making every team member believe in the same story. A story that says, they can compete and win against the best hockey teams in the world.”
The story he’s convinced everyone to believe in is that they have to break into the top six. “We are more confident of our game, skill and physical capabilities than ever before,” says Bharat Chetri, the team’s affable captain. He believes, once you’re at the international stage, the technical, physical and skill differences between teams are minor. The story you believe in, is the differentiator.
Olympics is on. It is exhilarating to watch the best competitors from all over the world, compete. Each one of them has prepared for years to reach here. Their commitment, their dedication, their passion, their talent is beyond question. The victory margin between the gold, silver and bronze medal winners are insignificant, minuscule. However, this insignificant difference makes all the difference.
While all of them did come to win, when it mattered the most, while preparing AND performing, the winners BELIEVED in the story more than everyone else.
Each one of us lives life believing in ‘something’, some story. Which story do you believe in?
Luck plays an important role in life / I will create my own luck
It is difficult to give up on smoking, drinking and other habits / I am the master of my habits.
I don’t have enough capital hence I cannot make it big / I will be able to raise as much capital as required
It is so difficult to get good employees / There are enough good people out there searching for a great job
My family does not support me otherwise……………. / I will make it big irrespective of the support of my family
With this person as my spouse, I can never have a great married life / With this person itself, I will create a great married life
I am not good enough / I am good and meant to be successful
I can’t do this / I will learn and master it
My memory is bad / I will train my memory to be the finest
I am not intelligent enough / I will either become intelligent or buy the necessary intelligence.
Since I have studied in vernacular medium I can never speak good English / In six months I will learn to communicate in fluent English
I am not good looking hence I always feel inferior / Looks? It has nothing to do with what I can become in life
I don’t have enough / I will use what I have and get what I want
I am not strong enough / I will become absolutely strong
Love is painful / Love is bliss
Nothing much can happen in my country / I will play my role in the making of my country
No one loves me / So many people love me
Children don’t listen nowadays/ When addressed the right way, children respond brilliantly
All alone, what can I do? / I can and I will bring about the desired change
Believe in that story that helps you to live a peaceful and progressive life. That will be ‘smart living’. Your life is the story YOU believe in. Lets live a great story.
Believe in a GOOD story about you.
And make it true.
Whatever must be done for it, go ahead and DO.
While one person sees the thorns and frowns, the other sees the rose and smiles. The third sees both, avoids the thorns and enjoys the rose.
Which one is you? Indeed, which one is YOU?
There are thorns in every path. Someone just complains, someone else just goes and wears a shoe.
Something is broken. Someone just complains, someone else just goes and gets the right glue.
Which one is you? Indeed, which one is YOU?
With loads of love, prayers and best wishes,
Narendra Goidani
As I Live…I Learn

Author Articles
More From This Author
Dearest Darling Friends, Last month my darling wife Bharathi purchased three different toothpaste variants. The regular simple Colgate for me that I have been using since the time we had teeth (experience,...
Dearest Darling Friends, Mr. Rastogikar was a bulky man, with a round face, a little rough look, a few darker spots gifted by chicken pox, french cut beard and a receding hairline. He looked like someone...
Dearest Darling Friends, One of the classy things about the 8 member Mr. Moiz’s family was that every morning one member of the family would say ‘Breakfast Prayers’. On the breakfast table each...
Stories have power. They delight, enchant, touch, teach, recall, inspire, motivate, challenge. They help us understand. They imprint a picture on our minds. Want to make a point or raise an issue? Tell a...
Dearest Darling Friends,   Has water entered your ship?   The ship needs water to move. Compared to the mass of water it can travel and conquer, the size of the ship is very tiny.   Yet, all the...
Related Articles
Related Articles
People are using the internet more than ever these days to buy products and services. As compared to traditional mediums of advertising like newspapers, TV and radio the internet is far cheaper and you can...
Getting a smooth powerful ride is the dream of every driver. Now with the Superchips Cortex, it can be easily achieved because of the performance enhancing features, it has. Superchips are industry leaders...
Offshore companies involve some substantial benefits linked to them. Some companies will be able to erase their goverment tax bill; others have survived potentially business-ending occurrences this can...
The night is young! This line is definitely true especially if you plan and or leading the swingers life. If you plan to get naught wild and sexy then it’s safer and better to join a swingers website club...
Family solicitors are often known for helping out in matters of separation and divorce but in truth they handle many other aspects of family law. In a world where divorce has become quite common, it is...
Latest Articles
Latest Articles
Discovering an excellent elder care facility in Los Angeles, CA is a job lots of families must endure. Because so many "baby-boomers" are already retired or retiring, lots of people are in the process of ...
A Mother or Father will find themselves upon death in a high position in Paradise, and they will ask Allah, "By Allah, how can I be in a position such as this, when I feel I do not deserve such a position?"...
Getting the company of Manchester girl is something that everyone wishes to have in his trip. You may come across many young and vivacious girls in this city that are completely stunning ladies. These girls...
From the first glance the River Seine in Paris may just look like a plain river which runs through Paris, but it happens to be much more than just that, having turned into a major tourist attraction and a...
In our everyday living, we entertain ourselves with films, video clips, music and information on the portable unit, while traveling in bus or being at home. For online video most well-known source is ...
 


Search for articles

RSS

Member Login