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 Nowadays two fathers, Li Gang (a Chinese official ) and Li Shuangjiang (a Chinese singer), become the focus of media because of their sect-willed sons. AS is known to all natives, the saying “My father is Li Gang” is popular on the Internet. The other case is about Li Shuangjiang, his son not only broken the traffic rules but also hit the pass-by. Both of the boys are severely spoiled by their parents. Consequently, their behaviors have a surely negative influence on Chinese younger penetration. Taking all this into consideration, people should adopt necessary measures to stop this trend.

  To stop spoiling children, parents must first of all have an overall knowledge of the result caused by overindulging their children. In Chinese modern society, family with only one child is common. Hence children are care of their parents、their grandparents, and even relations. Gradually the children will take it for granted that they are the center of whole family. Whatever they want, their parents will space no efforts getting for them and they don’t have to worry at all. When they grow up, they may be selfish and h they are accustomed to being the litter king or queen. They will never budge an inch of they really desire for one thing. What’s more, they may be easily frustrated and coward, due to the overly protection of their family. Proper prosecution can help their growth but too much will prevent them from maturity. Besides, they are not diligent and determined enough. Parents plan and do everything possible for their children so that the children become passive and lazy. They are not strong mind. Love is to cultivate, not to spill.

  Parents should raise their children in right way. Firstly, for example, showing children the right way to grow up by being a responsible adult and good role model can be effective. As the proverb goes “A good example is the best seaman.” Children watch parents and learn from them. Secondly, cutting back on the material things given to children of they don’t appreciate these gifts. Trying to grade them a chore list and start giving them an allowance for completing chores. Let them use their allowance money to buy what really want. This teaches children the value of herd work and makes them cherish things more. Thirdly, teaching the children about sharing and charity by helping them choose some of their belongings to give away to those who are less primness. Explaining why donating items is important and how can help those in urgent need.

  After all, Child is the hope of a country. Children’s education should be emphasized and given public attention to. Parents should know the consequences of spoiling children and take effective measures to educate their children. Only taught in appropriate way can make the children be well-mannered and considerate. AS a result, causes like Li Gang could have been avoided.